Relationships are often painted as a source of joy and connection, but for many, they can also be a wellspring of anxiety. If you’ve found yourself feeling overwhelmed by your partner’s actions, or by the fear of the relationship falling apart, you’re not alone. Relationship anxiety can be a heavy burden, but understanding its roots…
Relationships can be complicated, and it’s completely normal for couples to feel a bit disconnected or stuck in a routine. If you’re wondering if you’ve landed in the “Unhappy Couples Club,” don’t worry! Many couples experience tough times, and recognising the root of your feelings is the first step toward making positive changes. Understanding Your…
Your Questions Answered. Today, we delve into the world of online couples counselling, answering some of the most common questions couples have about this modern approach to relationship support. Whether you’re curious about the effectiveness of online sessions or wondering how it works, we’ve got you covered. 1. What is Online Couples Counselling and How…
Enhancing Relationship Communication: The Art of Listening (Part 2) Effective communication is the cornerstone of any healthy relationship. As a couples counsellor, I’ve seen firsthand how expressing our needs can significantly impact our connections with others. By understanding and integrating principles from attachment theory, psychobiosocial approaches, and neuroscience, we can enhance our communication skills and…
Effective communication can be challenging. Here are some tips from a couples counsellor. Effective communication is the cornerstone of any healthy relationship. As a couples counsellor, I’ve seen firsthand how the way we express our needs can significantly impact our connections with others. By understanding and integrating principles from attachment theory, psychobiosocial approaches, and neuroscience,…
Compassionate Ways to Manage Feeling Suffocated in Relationships Feeling suffocated in a relationship can be really tough. It’s like you’re struggling to breathe amidst the closeness and intensity of your connection with your partner. But there are ways to manage these feelings with kindness and understanding: Understand Your Feelings: Take a moment to reflect on…
Insights from Attachment Theory and Neurobiology In the intricate dance of human relationships, communication is the rhythm that guides our steps. Yet, what happens when that rhythm falters, and we find ourselves entangled in a web of miscommunication, misunderstanding, and frustration? For many, this scenario is all too familiar—an exhausting cycle of feeling stuck, unable…
A Couples Counsellor’s Perspective on Communication Challenges in Relationships Navigating the Waves of Love In the vast sea of love, every couple encounters waves that test the strength of their emotional anchor. As an emotionally focused couple counsellor, I’ve had the privilege of helping many couples navigate the sometimes turbulent waters of communication. In this…